Silent Speed Dating with Ceci Ferox is a workshop and social experiment designed to help participants explore attraction, boundaries, and choice in a safe, curious, and playful environment. Through a combination of solo reflection, silent encounters, micro-consent exercises, and guided discussion, participants learn to notice what draws them to others, communicate boundaries clearly, and shift focus from “Do they like me?” to “Do I enjoy this interaction?”
The event moves from internal awareness to shared experience: sitting silently with a partner, exploring simple touch with consent, and gradually opening space for conversation. It is structured to be inclusive of all neurotypes, body types, gender identities, and sexual orientations. All you need is openness and curiosity for different kinds of connections, from sexual attraction to platonic kinship.
By the end, you will leave with practical tools for dating, self-awareness, and intentional connection - and new ways of seeing yourself and others in the process.
Topics We’ll Explore
- How attraction shows up in your body and mind
- Noticing how your body reacts to others, both in proximity and touch
- Setting and accepting boundaries in dating
- Choosing vs being chosen: shifting perspective
Who It’s For
- Socially awkward penguins
- People curious about dating and connection
- Anyone who wants to practice boundaries and communication skills
- Those interested in experimental, playful, low-pressure social interactions
- People who want to explore self-awareness, consent, and embodied attraction